Cemeteries: My weird hobby
filed in Cemeteries! on Nov.10, 2008
Yeah, so I like cemeteries. I admit it.
“Hello, my name is Sheila, and I am a Taphophile”
I wonder if this is where, when I walk through the cemetery gates everyone yells “Sheila!” like in Cheers. Hmmmmm, I hope not, considering most people in the cemetery are pretty much dead.
The kids and I went out ‘cemetery hopping’ yesterday. We visited my grandmothers’ ancestors and all their ‘new neighbors’. Anyhow, something about poking around in cemeteries exhilarates me. It all started when I did the family genealogy for Shane’s side and started mine. Then I was hooked. I have far too many pics of my kids as toddlers posing with headstones. Yeah, I know, strange. frickin creepy.
There’s just something about visiting those once forgotten. To wonder about their lives and who they were. We always make a point to stop and visit the graves of the little ones. The babies. Every cemetery has a slew of children who died in 1917/18 from influenza. I imagine the pain of the young mothers who lost their child. In some cases, children. It always chokes me up. (continue to pics ~



These are but a few of the baby graves. I wonder what the name for these hollowed out stones are? You can see some of them still have religious figurines intact inside them, the rest have been stolen from their
stones.
Here’s an old headstone that used to be a large cross.
This one also caught our eye because her name looks like ‘marijuanna’.
The pic on the left is a Tree of Life or Tree of Faith gravestone, which usually comes from the Woodsmen of The World (a fraternal order)
Here’s an older section of the cemetery. Enlarge the photo, the large (tall) monument on the right has a spooky face looking thing on the side. It’s just the weathering from the 100 years it’s
been there, but it does look a little spooky.
This one is just a beautiful large monument.
Here’s an old, large, Polish monument.
So yeah, there are a lot of sights to see at the cemetery. A lot of history and untold stories. Many forgotten and many remembered.
I wonder if this stone (made of cement, decorated with simple stones) is from a poor family. How awful to have to bury two young children at the same time.
Or the family of this young soldier. Killed in service to his country. Sad, sad stories.

“But then some day we could take our time
To brush the leaves aside so you can reach us
But you left me far behind ” ~ lyrics in “Far Behind’ (Candlebox)













November 11th, 2008 on 12:21 am
That is one creepy graveyard, seriously. I actually do find cemeteries to be very serene, they inspire a certain thoughtfulness. I didn’t know there was a word for it. I guess there’s a word for everything.
November 11th, 2008 on 8:37 am
are there night ventures to the cemetery? that would be some scary shite
November 11th, 2008 on 8:44 am
Ohhh, great idea John! They are all old enough for that now. Sounds like a plan!
November 11th, 2008 on 9:10 am
My mom has always had a thing about cemeteries and I spent many a happy hour in my childhood prowling around them.
November 11th, 2008 on 9:52 am
I have all kinds of pictures of my kids posing around tombstones too! So, I guess I’m weird too.
Very cool cemetery. When we were living in Park City, UT we saw a lot of woodsmen of the world gravestones
November 11th, 2008 on 10:24 am
Those are great photos. That’s a very unique interest.
November 11th, 2008 on 11:45 am
Look at you miss fancy pants..quite the blogger. Cemeteries. Use to do the cemetery hop with my great Aunt Clara. She called it her cemetery jollies. The history, caring for family, storytelling, story inventing, not so weird. Ask Donna about the family hayride sometime. That may be weird. I don’t think so.
November 11th, 2008 on 9:19 pm
OK, sorry to be such a weirdo and post 3 times on your blog in 5 minutes but I just had to! I also love visiting cemetaries. I love thinking about what peoples lives were like, where they lived, who they loved… I also like to find people who had the same birth (or death) day as me. For my wedding I decided to have pictures in the old graveyard joined to the historic church…time constraints changed that plan, but I still love cemetaries.
November 12th, 2008 on 11:34 pm
Hey, Wacky! If you go at night, please make sure you let your family know where/when you’re going, so that we know where to look for you! Be sure to also take some smelling salts just in case anyone should pass out! WHOOOOOOAAAAAAHHHHHH, BOOOOOO!
August 1st, 2009 on 2:46 pm
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